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Dabney Hayes

Profile / United States

Dabney Hayes, LPCC, LPC

North Carolina

LPCC LPC - Stress and Anxiety

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About Dabney

Dabney Hayes is an LPCC and LPC licensed in California and Colorado with 14 years of experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, addiction, relationship strain, parenting challenges, and related concerns such as grief and self-esteem.

Dabney focuses on helping people notice unhelpful thoughts and habits. She describes an integrative, client-centered approach that draws from several evidence-informed methods. Sessions are straightforward and goal oriented, with practical steps to try between meetings.

Her background includes work in individual and group settings. She has supported people through chronic life changes, caregiving stress, chronic illness, and issues tied to attachment and abandonment. She also lists experience with ADHD, bipolar concerns, and sexual diversity topics including BDSM and kink.

In therapy she uses tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and attachment-focused methods. Those approaches are used to address thinking patterns, emotional regulation, and relationship dynamics. Sessions often include skill practice, behavior experiments, and reflection on values and goals.

Dabney notes experience with both short-term coaching-style work and longer clinical work. Fees vary by location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Prospective clients are directed to the platform matching process to schedule a first appointment.

How her approaches translate to online work

CBT helps people notice thoughts and test them with small behavior changes. It is useful for anxiety, low mood, sleep problems, and patterns that keep people stuck. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on values and building willingness to feel difficult emotions while taking meaningful action. It is often used for stress, chronic pain, and life transitions. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at relational patterns and how early bonds shape expectations; it can help with intimacy-related issues and chronic relationship stress.

Finding the right mix of these approaches is part of the work. She will collaborate with clients to decide which methods fit best for their goals and situation. That means trying strategies, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan rather than committing to one fixed method up front.

The biography does not specify which online formats are offered, so confirm the available session types before you book. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove commute time. It also lets clients practice skills in their everyday settings and bring real-life situations into sessions for immediate troubleshooting. Licensed professionals can adapt homework, skills practice, and behavior experiments so the work continues between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepressionCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

North Carolina, Florida, Washington, Colorado, California, South Carolina

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address most often?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, addiction, relationship and parenting concerns, grief, self-esteem, and related issues.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

She uses an integrative, client-centered approach that emphasizes practical tools, behavior change, and noticing unhelpful thoughts.

How long has she practiced as a therapist?

She has 14 years of clinical experience in both individual and group settings.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She holds LPCC and LPC credentials and is based in North Carolina while licensed as CA LPCC and CO LPC.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Confirm current session options before booking.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

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